I would like to share some of the qualities I have observed from my current supervisor, which is the center director of the Head Start program that I work in. When it comes to communicating with the parents or staff she is very proactive to finding various ways to communication such as notes, emails, phone calls as well as person conversations. Despite the fact that a75% of our parents do not speak English she always welcomes the children and families with a smile in her face and one or two words she knows how to speak in Spanish every morning. Her doors are always open for any concerns or questions parents might have, and they know that even if she can't understand most of what they say she always has somebody that translates for them and does her best to help them in any way she can. I also admire the way she can easily influence others for the improvement of the services we offer to the families, she is very clear and assertive at what she says as well as her expectations. Her vision and goals are very clear and she does not get intimidated when it comes to speaking up when there is injustice or discrimination towards the services the families receive in our program. She is a strong believer that we need to empower the parents so they can speak up when things to not seem right, and not get intimidated if they do not speak the language .
I have also observed the way she is able to influence all staff to work together as a team and not just doing what is their part , but actually helping others once completed their tasks. Her phases are always we are a team, it's not just about what is our job, we are not alone in this. I have learned several techniques that have improved my communication over all with my students as well as my parents, I have also learned to speak up and empower my parents with the various resources and contacts I have obtained over the years. By improving my communication skills I have influence and created a relationship of trust, team work and respect between other staff , parents and children which are crucial elements when it comes to providing quality service.
Deborah,
ReplyDeleteYou mentioned three excellent components to effective communication. I believe listening is very crucial in communication because you really have to hear what the other person is saying before you can make a true and reliable response.
Second, I agree with you that eye contact is very important because it makes you feel like you really have the other persons attention and they are truly listening to what you have to say. Great post!
Deborah,
ReplyDeleteYou mentioning about your pastors and the way he listens helps me to understand how that part of communciation is so important. I think everyone wants to be listened to and it is a skill that is hard to do without saying anything and just hearing the other person speak their mind. Effective listening is just as important as effective communication.
I enjoyed reading your post.
Deborah,
ReplyDeleteYour pastor sounds like my husband. Isn't is nice to have people around us whom we can emulate? Thanks for your insightful thoughts.
Deborah,
ReplyDeleteYour pastor sounds like an excellent and effective communicator; which is a great quality for such a leader to possess. The ability to let someone speak without interrupting is a great one and something I need to work on!